Bring Fun and Magic into Manifesting Your Mate

Today I invite single people who are looking for partnership to lighten up, play and discover the fun and magic that can be found in manifesting your mate.

In our group-coaching program, we have some members who are aware of how significant and serious they have made the process of finding their mate.

Their approach to Internet dating has become serious minus the play. They have removed all of the play and exploration in finding their life partner and have made it a serious endeavor.

I don’t know about you, but when I am being pursued by another, I am always more interested in those who are joyous and playful in wooing me. My attitude is “If you can’t bring the fun don’t bother getting to know me.”

Life offers us many opportunities to be serious and significant, and I do not believe that the area of relationship needs to be one of them. We can successfully master relationships through the avenue of play and curiosity.

Try it! I challenge you to shift your attitude to playfulness and curiosity and see if you do not notice a difference in how open another is to you from this point of view!

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Are You Keeping the Play in Your Relationship?

In my relationship with my husband, Melvin, I remember when we played and romped. We traveled, poked fun at each other and enjoyed the art of learning about one another.

Laughter came easy through our bantering, playing backgammon, chess, and cards. We played…yes; we played full out in our getting to know each other. It was what I would call serious play.

But, I remember once we got married I said, “Now it is time to get serious!” and guess what, I threw the art of play out of our marriage. We stopped playing.

What I have observed is the importance in maintaining a sense of play in relationships. Play keeps things in flow and the atmosphere of a relationship light in spirit.

Also, I learned that it takes approximately 15 years to understand a culture of any kind. In my opinion, a relationship is its own culture so in that respect, it takes about that amount of time to understand your partner who is part of the culture of your relationship. It is also important to maintain that sense of curiosity.

Are you maintaining a sense of play and curiosity in your relationship? I'd love to hear your comments. Please post them below where it says "comments."

We'll have more on this discussion next time...

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Bringing and Keeping Play Into Relationships

I am becoming aware of how little people in relationships are willing to play and explore with their significant others.

When people decide to get into a relationship, everything becomes serious and significant.

Even in the pursuit of a relationship, we make it significant.

As a couple, the ability to remain playful and curious is what will get you through the hard times in your relationships.

Next time, more about playing and romping!

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Our next Relationship Readiness Weekend is coming up on June 6-7, 2009. This is a powerful program guaranteed to provide you clarity and direction around relationships. Register here

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